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  • What Comes First When Training Your Horse?

    What Comes First When Training Your Horse?

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    I remember the excitement I felt when I began working with my pony ‘alone’ at home in the fields when I was younger.  The feeling that anything was possible if I was only willing to put in the consistent effort and work.
    And the feeling that there was just so much to do and so little time to do it!
    My mind was racing with thoughts of ground pole exercises, schooling movements, jumping grids, fitness training, etc., etc., etc.  All of the ‘exciting’ stuff I had seen other riders get up to in the pony magazines I got as a treat a couple of times a year.
    And after speaking with thousands of adult riders over the years, I think they also experience those same feelings.  Except as an adult, when training your horse alone, those feelings of initial excitement can often turn into overwhelm pretty quickly!
    In this episode of the Daily Strides Podcast, I want to chat about the very first concept I believe all horses and riders should work on in their training.  And I want to help you begin to think of this as the absolute foundation of everything else you do with your horse. Especially if you are training your horse alone.

    The concept? Forwardness…

    There are so many reasons why this is overlooked if you are a rider training your horse. Maybe the belief that it’s ‘boring’ or unimportant.  Or not correctly understanding what it is.  Sometimes riders don’t even know it is a ‘thing’ that needs work.
    Forwardness is a very real ‘thing’.  And it requires both you and your horse to understand and work this way.  Mentally and physically. 
    Without forwardness, none of the other principles or concepts (steps) of the training scale can exist.  And I realize this sounds like a bit of an exaggeration, but it is not.  Frowardness is absolutely essential to everything you do with your horse.

    What is Forwardness?

    One of the most useful ways of describing forwardness is to imagine the feeling when you have a sense of purpose.  There is a focus and quiet determination to it.  It’s not rushed, it’s certainly not wandering.  But rather it is moving towards something or some outcome with focus, clarity, and energy.
    This ‘sense of purpose’ can be applied to how you and your horse both think and take action.  Mental and physical forwardness.
    Having this combined ‘sense of purpose’ means that you are working together towards a single goal or outcome.  And this is absolutely key when training and working your horse.
    Some horses naturally tend to have this (a little like some people), while for others, it must be learned. And this is where, I believe, your training should begin with your horse.

    Training Your Horse to Work Forward

    I often feel that the physical aspects of this trait are a little easier to instill and build in both horses and riders.  There are many ways you can encourage your horse to move forward.  From your body language to your voice.  To use your position and other driving aids.
    However, if you have to keep ‘reminding’ your horse (via your aids) to ‘work forward’, he is not actually working forward!
    True physical forwardness is when your horse begins to accept responsiblity for his own level of purpose.  When your horse begins to ‘take you there’.  And just like anything in horse riding, you can do this by clear and timely correction when working together.

    Making Timely Corrections

    As you feel your horse beginning to ‘slow down’ or ‘meander’, you can encourage him to refocus and work forwards again.  It will take some consistency on your part, but the results are well worth it.  Similarly, if you feel your horse begin to rush or run, you can remind him to channel the energy into focused and rhythmic work.
    What’s key to remember and understand is that your horse will probably need you to correct, encourage, or remind him often initially – but will slowly begin to take over the responsibility for himself soon.

    Thinking Forward

    Isn’t it strange how some things, when you learn they exist, begin to shape how you see everything in your day-to-day life?  Thinking forward was one of those things for me.  Once I learned it was a ‘thing’, I began to look for it everywhere.  And where it existed – compared to where it did not – was blatantly obvious.
    Thinking forward is essential for both horses and their riders. The lack of it in training is what causes everything to become ‘stuck’.  Often physically stuck!
    So a horse who plants himself in one spot and is unwilling to move forward.  Or a horse that needs constant ‘chasing’ to get to move anywhere at all! And with regards to the riders; a lack of forward-thinking allows them to become distracted by everything during each ride.  They struggle with consistency and actually doing what they set out to do.

    Rider’s Mental Forwardness

    Luckily, thinking forward is a little like concentration – it can be improved and strengthened over time.
    And this must begin with the rider being committed to developing this in themselves first.
    I will list more resources below about how you can begin to think this way…
    And, if you are looking for some ‘hand-holding’ while you are learning how to train your horse, make sure you get on the VIP list for my brand new program where I will be helping a small number of riders train their horses at home, alone, without a trainer or coach… Get on the list HERE
    Happy Riding
    Lorna

    Seeking Founding Riders…

    If you are considering training your horse at home or alone (boarding at a barn, but don’t have a regular coach or trainer), make sure you check out the details of my upcoming brand-new program.

    I’m looking for a limited number of riders to work in-depth with me and my team as we go through this program for the first time.  Get on the waitlist to be the first to find out all of the information… We start in early September. Join the Waitlist HERE (no obligation to join the program, just be the first to know all of the details :) )

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  • Building Confidence in Yourself as an Equestrian

    Building Confidence in Yourself as an Equestrian

    Confidence in Yourself as an Equestrian
    Confidence is trusting yourself and your abilities to handle the situation you find yourself in. Right now, we are all finding ourselves in a situation that we have never before found ourselves in.   The COVID-19  outbreak has changed the landscape for most equestrians.
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    Many riders are no longer able to ride.  Many riders are having to go it alone.  Some for the first time.  All of this is leading to a lot of riders experiencing a crisis of confidence.
    However, you can do this.  With a few simple ‘step by step’ actions, you can come through this, especially if you are lacking confidence in your abilities to navigate this alone. 

    1. Keep Moving Forward

    One of the biggest concerns many riders are experiencing right now is the thought that they might ‘mess things up’ with their horse.  “If I’m not doing things perfectly, my horse’s training will deteriorate”.  Let’s be honest.  This is a possibility.  Especially if you have been relying heavily on your trainer for support and your confidence is tied to them being present with you in the arena.
    However, keep in mind that horses are resilient.  They bounce back.  Re-schooling can happen if necessary down the line.  
    The very fact that you are worried about ‘ruining’ your horse tells me that you probably won’t.  Because you are conscientious and responsible.  So go and play a little now.  Don’t allow these thoughts to prevent you from taking action.
    1. Identify What You Are Afraid of Happening

    Most people I know, with the exception of my husband, tend to jump straight to what ‘might’ happen.  The might is rarely good.  These past few weeks, I have seen so many riders do the same thing.  “I might fall off”.  “What if I damage my horse’s legs / back / mouth?”.  “I just don’t know what to do, and I’m worried I do the wrong thing”.
    All valid worries.  However, all are more ‘worst-case scenarios’.  Yes, these things ‘might’ happen.  However, they are all things that you can actively work towards preventing them happening as well.
    If you can get clear on the ‘thing’ that is actually holding you back, you can begin identifying ways you can lessen the risk of that thing happening. 

    3. Now Name the ‘Easy’ for You in the Saddle

    Start where you feel confident and happy.  For some riders, this might be simply tacking up.  It could be working on walk in a small arena.  Maybe transitions in and out of the canter.
    Remind yourself that you can do things!  Then make a point of doing those things. 
    Allow the areas of your riding that you feel comfortable and happy with to guide you in moving forward. Be intentional about them and use them as a way to begin allowing confidence to be the dominant feeling in every ride.
    I then suggest saying there for as long as you need to shift your mindset to one where you ‘can’ do things…

    3. Begin Blending the Hard with the Easy

    Once you are feeling comfortable and confident, you can begin revisiting ‘hard’ again.  But this time you are doing so with intention.  The intention is what will make all the difference for you at this point.
    Consciously begin trying the ‘hard things’.  Make a decision to begin including them in your riding. Sprinkle them throughout your ride.
    What is key here is that you are intentional about visiting these areas.  Staying for a short period.  Noticing the feelings.  Then being just as intentional about moving back to where you feel more comfortable.
    Over time, your comfort zone will expand to include the things that you feel are ‘hard’ right now.

    4. Find What is Truly Fun

    The treadmill that you were on regarding your riding has stopped.  You need to consciously make the decision to step off of it!
    This may have been a lesson program or coaching program.  It could have been a competitive schedule or training program.  Maybe your current barn or the people you ride with.
    Recognizing that you now have time to assess and evaluate what you truly enjoy in your riding is the key to putting a silver lining on the current global pandemic for you and your horse.
    Happy Riding
    Lorna

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  • Making Progress in Your Riding While Part Leasing

    Making Progress in Your Riding While Part Leasing

    Making Progress while Part Leasing or Renting a Horse

    For many riders, part leasing, renting or sharing a horse is an affordable way to make horse riding possible. With the current turn of events around the globe, I think that many more riders will turn to this method of ‘horse ownership’ over the coming weeks and months.

    However, having two or more people sharing a horse has its challenges. This is amplified even more if the riders are at different levels, have different styles or just different goals.

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    In this episode of the Daily Strides Podcast, you will learn a few simple processes you can use to make ‘part-leasing’ not only feel good for you. But also, use it in a way that allows you, the other rider and the horse to continue to develop and make progress in your riding.

    Lay Out Your Goals & Communicate Them

    The first thing I suggest you do is to get clear on what you are working towards in your riding. What is the end goal you’re progressing towards when you mount up each day? Knowing what you are working towards goes a long way to helping figure out how best to get there.

    When you know what you want, make sure you communicate this to the other rider. Tell them, in as much detail as you can, what you are working towards and why. Have them do the same thing for you.

    This will immediately expose any initial differences you both have that may potentially conflict with each other’s goals. It will also give them a better idea of what to do in situations that could potentially play out a few different ways.

    For example; sharing a horse that you are trying to develop for graded dressage with another rider who simply wants to gallop across fields all day long will probably not lead to much happiness for anyone. Knowing things like this from the outset can help prevent frustration and feelings of ‘wasted time’ further down the line.

    Create a Private Channel

    The second thing I suggest doing in order to have a successful and happy part leasing surrounds consistent communication.  A simple way to do this is by creating a private channel for anyone who rides the horse using any one of the free apps available on your phone. Voxer, WhatsApp or Telegram are good examples of places you can do this. The purpose of the channel is to keep a living record of what is happening with the horse, ride by ride.

    After each ride, simply record what you worked on and how it went. Then post in the channel.

    A great feature of most of these types of Apps is that you can record voice notes.  I personally think they save a lot of time. And, an added bonus is that they usually allow you to record when you are out of signal.  Internet connectivity can be an issue for many equestrians in the yard.  This solves the issue by ‘saving’ the notes until you are connected again and then automatically upload them.

    This method helps hold you accountable. It also allows you to learn from someone else experiences with the horse.

    Choose Exercises that Are Beneficial for Everyone

    While part leasing, each month, you and the other rider can agree on 4 or 5 specific exercises to work on that will help you to both to move closer to your goals. I’m going to strongly suggest keeping the exercises as simple as possible. The key to making this work for you both is the angle from which you approach the exercise.

    Most simple exercises can be worked on from really any perspective or filter you wish to work on or focus on.

    Take the serpentine. If you are working on contact and connection, this is a great exercise for that. Similarly, it is equally as good to work on suppleness, rhythm, relaxation, straightness and a whole host of other principles in riding.

    By working on similar exercises and then combining your knowledge and insights regarding how it went, you can make double the progress.

    Obviously you must apply common sense when using this method. No horse is going to respond well to the same exercise being riding over and over again for a month. However, if you have 4 or 5 exercises and then sprinkle throughout the sessions, this method becomes a powerful resource for making progress in your riding when part leasing or sharing a horse.

    Create Time for a Monthly Review

    If you do choose to implement some of the above ideas, the final piece is committing to improving it on a monthly basis. Make time for a monthly review. You can do this alone or with the other rider. Simply see what is working and what is not.

    Then commit to continuing on with what is serving everyone – and making necessary changes to what is causing roadblocks.

    This can be the exercises you are riding, the days you ride. It can also be the times or goals. Horse riding is an ever-evolving journey and it is foolish to expect the road to be straight all the way.

    Realizing that assessing what has happened and then using this information wisely to adjust the plan will serve everyone involved.

    Successful part-leasing, part renting or sharing of a horse will require constant communication between all parties. If done right, it can be a wonderfully beneficial and affordable way to develop, for riders and for the horse.

    Happy Riding
    Lorna

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  • Navigating these Unusual Times as an Equestrian

    Navigating these Unusual Times as an Equestrian

    Navigating Unusual Times as an Equestrian
    Things are moving fast.  There is an energy that seems blended with so much of what is happening right now, and it is not beneficial energy.  So, what can you, as an equestrian, do to get through this with grace and compassion?
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    Quite a few things actually.  Here are a few suggestions you can try over the coming weeks…

    1. Breathe

    I have yet to find anything as beneficial as a loud and intentional exhale when it all is feeling just too much to deal with and handle.  It works on the ground and in the saddle.  In fact, it even works for ‘non-horse’ related stuff.  If you are feeling overwhelmed over the coming days, weeks and months, try a loud exhale.

    2. Be Present with Your Horse

    Yesterday morning I was in the house feeling all the feels.  Anxiety, worry, concern, stress, pressure.  You name it as a negative emotion and I can bet I felt it in some form or another.
    And then I opened the door and stepped outside. 
    The birds were still flying and singing.  And the butterflies were still ‘fluttering by’.  The flowers were still blooming. I walked over to one of the horses and just stood there beside her.  Not asking anything.  Nor expecting anything.  Just present.
    Within seconds, I felt grounded.  I also felt that whatever happens life will go on and I felt a renewed sense of peace knowing that.

    3. Realize that ‘this too, shall pass’

    Yes, your life might look very different after it.  In fact, I think that this will touch everyone in some way or another.  However, when it has passed, you will find yourself picking up where you left off.  You can use this time, right now, to begin preparing for that.  Working on yourself so that you can reach that point in the best possible condition you can be in so that you will thrive.

    4. Ask yourself ‘What Can I Do Right Now?’

    There is always something to be done.  I am a firm believer in that.  Even if that ‘thing’ is not a physical thing, you can work on conditioning your mind.  Your thoughts and beliefs.  Or you can work on conditioning your body; so that when the time comes to get back to ‘regular life’ you are feeling great and ready to go.
    Riding is the same, even when you cannot ride, there are a lot of different things you can do to improve your skills when you do get back in the saddle.  Fitness programs, understanding the training scale better, or identifying your shortcomings when it comes to the basics are just a few things.
    The same goes for when you are in the saddle, even if you are riding alone.  What can you do?  Ask it and see what ideas it sparks in you…

    5. Look for the ‘opportunities’ this new situation brings

    Okay, so I get that this might feel like a stretch right now, but bear with me!  Have you ever noticed how you will continue to do something a certain way, habitually, until something happens that stops you?  It is only when you can’t do it the ‘habit way’ anymore, that you begin exploring other ways to get the thing done.
    In fact, it is true that it is only when we are actually prevented from doing the thing a certain way, that we discover better ways. 
    This can happen in your riding as well.  It could be a new instructor or trainer.  Maybe riding a different horse.  Or even learning online rather than in person.

    6. Who Can You Support & Who Can Support You?

    One of the paradoxes of this situation is that we need to, perhaps more than ever, come together as a community in order to help each other.  And yet, we cannot physically do this.  Mental and emotional support is just as important in life.  Right now, it is even more so.
    Can you use your phone to video another rider working in the arena and then share the video with them via an app or social media channel?
    When we are working alone, it can often feel like working in the dark.  This will help the rider to see what they can work on.  You can then ask the rider to do the same for you.  “You video me (using your own phone) and I’ll video you (using my own phone)”.  Then share, share and share some more!

    7. Get Intentional About Why You’re Doing What You’re Doing

    I can guarantee you that there are things you are doing in your riding, the very next time you get into the saddle, that are not serving you.  They possibly did at some point, however, you have grown as a rider, and now your habits need to catch up!
    Riding alone is a great time to really ask ‘why’ you are doing each individual thing.  It allows you to become mindful of your actions. 
    If you are unable to ride right now, I am going to suggest spending some time learning about how you could, potentially, improve what you are doing in the saddle.  If you are more novice, find clarity around the basics.  A more experienced rider can brush up on how to implement and use the training scale to develop both themselves and their horse.
    You can also do this using groundwork and lunging.  Be mindful of every move you make; and begin experimenting with improving your aids and actions. 

    8. Study Yourself as a Rider

    If you are confined to your house or unable to visit your horse at the barn, I am going to suggest investing some time learning about you and your riding.  Get out all of the photos and videos of you in the saddle.  Begin looking for patterns.
    Notice a twist in your body, or a slouching through your shoulders.  It could be dropping your inside hand or swinging your lower leg. 
    Once you begin seeing the ‘things’ (and we all have them), you can then begin matching them up with what is actually happening in the saddle. Your horse falling in or out for example.  Or hollowness through your horses back.
    Make a list of the things that you are committing to changing or replacing when you do get back in the saddle.  Then create a plan to make that happen. 

    9. Continue to Move Forward

    Life is going to carry on.  Right now, we just have to adapt to how we are doing things in order to continue to make progress.  Bemoaning the fact that things have changed will not undo what has happened.  In fact, it will only serve to keep you stuck in that negative place.
    Find ways to move.  Physically and mentally.  Explore new things and new ways of doing old things.  
    Connect with other equestrians and riders for ideas and to help inspire new thoughts.  Enroll in an online program or course to help move you forward.  Begin a workout plan!  Do what suits you, but commit to moving forward.

    10, Follow a Plan

    If you are feeling a little lost in the arena.  If your coach or trainer is no longer able to work with you and you’re feeling bewildered about what to do, HERE IS A WEEKS PLAN FOR YOU.  It is free and it will suit most riders, regardless of experience or circumstance.
    I’m also inviting you to join my online community of equestrians to connect with other riders.  I give pieces of training in there and will be jumping in daily throughout this crisis to help and support where I can. 
    We can get through this.  All will be well again.  Maybe not immediately, but someday.
    In the meantime, keep moving forward, and, more importantly, keep well
    Lorna

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  • Riding alone? Are you Making Progress in Your Riding?

    Riding alone? Are you Making Progress in Your Riding?

    Riding alone? Making sure you are making progressHave you ever noticed how things are less fun when it consists of the ‘same old, same old’ day in and day out?  Many riders make the mistake of thinking that making progress in their riding only pertains to riders who compete, or desire to do so…

    However, having had a riding school and livery yard for 12 years now, I can tell you first hand that the biggest reason people give up on their horse riding dreams is lack of progress.

    Getting your first horse, whether it be a lease horse or actually purchasing a horse is one of the most exciting and memorable times in the life of a horse lover.  A chance to do what they love – whenever they want!

    Unfortunately your first horse will also tend to coincide with more time spent riding without a trainer or instructor in the arena with you.  There is no longer someone there planning out your rides, guiding you along and keeping you and your horse ‘on track’.  

    Now, I say unfortunately because while this may indeed be fun and a bit of a novelty initially, this can all change quite quickly.  Why?  Well, like anything we do where we don’t have someone holding us accountable, if we are not disciplined and focused it becomes very easy to take our eye off the ball, or in this case the goal – which is progress.

    Now there are a few obvious solutions to this – like get an instructor – but sometimes this is not always possible.  And sometimes you might just enjoy riding alone with your trusty steed…

    There are ways to make sure you are making the progress you want with your horse while riding alone.  Here are a few ideas to get you started:-

    Begin with where you are

    In order to really begin identifying the key areas you should be focusing your attention on, you first need to asses where you are right now with your riding.

    Many riders make the mistake of never considering that something might be holding them back, which leads to them never progressing at all with their skills and knowledge in the saddle.

    Ask yourself a few questions…

    How much progress have you made in the past 6 months?

    Sometimes progress can be difficult to quantify, particularly when we don’t have regular lessons or compete regularly.

    However, it is just a matter of knowing what to look for, to see if you are indeed progressing as a rider…

    You should always be progressing in both physical capabilities and in mindset and thought

    Think of your last ride.  What part of the ride felt the most natural for you?  What part did you feel could improve?  Now, think of yourself and your riding 6 months ago…  Ask yourself the same questions – and if you have the same answers then, yes, something is a little ‘stuck’ with your progress.

    Imagine what a trainer would say to you if you stayed at the same level, despite consistently getting into the saddle.  The sad fact is that many riders do not see their time in the saddle as an investment.  Your time

    There will always be something you are working on improving in your riding.  There will always be something that needs more attention in order to happen with greater ease and softness.  HOWEVER, these things should change as you improve as a rider.

    How much progress as your horse made in the last 6 months?

    Horse riding is a team sport, you and your horse.  This is why it is important to assess the whole team when we are looking for obstacles to progress and success.  This can be difficult when you are riding alone, however it is certainly not impossible.  Again, it all comes down to knowing what to look for…

    Assess your horses progress as you would your own.  Is your horse still struggling with the same challenges?  Is the training progressing and building your horse, both physically and mentally?  Is your horse learning new skills and refining the older ones?

    Where would you like you both to be 6 months from now?

    Riding Alone? Are you making progress?

    Once you have a clear picture on how the past 6 months have impacted your riding and training, let’s turn your attention to the coming 6 months.

    Knowing what the ‘destination’ looks and feels like

    So often we allow ourselves to become ‘stuck’ where we are.  Either we cannot see a way to go forward, which is usually mindset and confidence issue.  Or we have set big goals and don’t have a plan to actually make them happen.

    Either way, becoming ‘unstuck’ can be as simple as really knowing what you truly desire in your riding.

    Is it the ability to have a ‘secret conversation’ with your horse?   Is it the feeling of confidence in both your own and your horses abilities?  Is it that feeling of connection which, up to now, has proved elusive in your riding?

    Once you have a starting point, start fleshing it out…  Ask yourself a few questions about what this ‘desire’, when achieved, will look like.  Where will you be?  What horse will you be riding?  Who will be there with you?  How will it feel?

    Simple questions that start to move you mentally, from where you are to where you need to start going.  

    Riding alone does not have to mean the end of progress when it comes to your skills as a rider.  Becoming clear on what you want – and how that will feel – is the key to making your time in the saddle, whether it be with an instructor or if you are riding alone, ‘worthwhile’ in the greater scheme of things.

    It is so much easier to move forward when there is something wonderful pulling you there.  The desire to be a better rider is a strong one.  Harness it in your riding by going a little deeper and figuring out what you truly want in your riding.

    Happy Riding
    Lorna

  • Increasing Your Horses General Responsiveness

    Increasing Your Horses General Responsiveness

    Are your horse’s response times a little dismal?  Do find yourself asking… and then waiting… and maybe asking again…  and maybe, just maybe, on the fourth or fifth request you are lucky enough to get a response?!  Responsiveness is the factor which can make all the difference with you and your horse when working together.

    Riding is a little like day-to-day life in this regard; a quick response to something will often set the tone for how the relationship will proceed from that point.  Slow or non-existent response times lead to frustration, hold ups, loss of attention and energy.  They leave an overall bad taste in your mouth.

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    Riding a horse who is less than responsive to your aids is a frustrating place to be.  It results in the quality of the overall ride or performance to deteriorate. Accuracy, energy, balance, rhythm, transitions, straightness and just plain old enjoyment all diminish when your horse seemingly ignores you.

    Many riders will also notice that their progress stagnates; after all it becomes rather difficult to improve things when the basics are missing to begin with.

    But before we get into how you can begin ‘fixing’ your horses responsiveness, it is first important to figure out why your horse is indeed ignoring you.

    Many riders believe that horses who lack good responsiveness are lazy, unwilling and perhaps a little too laid back.  This can be true in certain situations, however, it is my experience that many horses are rather trained to ignore their riders. 

    This ‘training’ is usually unintentional, but it happens none the less.  When we speak about riding, it is good to remember that horses only learn what we teach them.  We teach what we do repeatedly or consistently… If you are doing the wrong things consistently in the saddle, your horse will begin to think that is the correct way of doing things.  I know, a bitter pill to swallow for many riders!

    Focus on ‘how’ you are asking your questions

    A good example of this is the walk to halt transition.  When riders are ‘training’ or ‘schooling’ in the arena, special attention is given to the quality of this transition.  The aids are timed to perfection, the coordination, the balance, the straightness, the rhythm – all beautifully carried out in the correct time and sequence to produce a wonderfully balance, square halt.

    However – on leaving the arena, perhaps to cool down on a short hack or the walk back to the stalls, both horse and rider seem to switch to ‘relax mode’.  While the relaxing itself it not wrong, very often the consistency of how things are done when in that mood is.  Horse and rider arrive at the barn and rather than the wonderful, well planned transition which happened 10 minutes earlier in the arena being repeated – the rider simply ‘hauls’ on the reins, the horse ‘falls’ into a standstill, legs everywhere, and the rider slides off…

    The next time they get into the arena, the same rider will complain and moan about the fact that their horse is ‘unresponsive’ to their aids.  Meanwhile they told, no – asked, their horse to be just that on arrival at the barn the previous ride.  Do you see the connection?

    The same applies with all elements and aspects of riding.  Your horses responsiveness is often a direct reflection of your consistency when asking

    Pay attention to what you are doing ‘between’ questions

    So once you become clear on how you are asking different questions, you need to also start focusing on what you are doing between those questions.

    We often hear the term ‘quiet’ used when describing riders.  It is a confusing term for many, but I suggest you begin associating the term with how the horse hears things, rather than us riders.

    When we are in the saddle, we are communicating all the time with our horse.  Understanding this simple concept is the first step to developing this ‘quietness’ in the saddle.  Can you turn up or down the volume of your aids?  Are you perhaps shouting at your horse, without even realising it?

    Shuffling, moving, shifting, driving, leaning, nudging, swinging, banging, fidgeting, collapsing, wriggling, pulling, tugging – the list is endless – all result in you speaking with your horse.   Is it any wonder that he begins to tune out and ignore everything.

    Riders who have little or no control over their movements in the saddle are like the chatty 3-year-old child…  You soon train your brain to ‘ignore’ the chatter, only paying attention when the tone / noise levels change.  Unfortunately, many horses who practice non-responsiveness are treating you just like that 3-year-old chatter box!  They only pay attention when you ‘shout’ at them, perhaps using your crop or an extra forceful kick…

    Improving Your Horses General Responsiveness

    Tweaking the conversation to improve responsiveness

    All good conversations have a purpose.  The reason you being to filter out the 3 year olds babbling, is just that, its nonsensical babbling!  There is no purpose to it.  The same applies to your aids.

    You need to begin thinking about every move you make in the saddle, and filtering out those that are only there for the sake of being there.  Become intentional about every single aid – regardless of where you are riding or what part of the ride you are on.

    I find that one of the easiest ways to begin this process is to firstly correct your position and posture in the saddle.  The correct position is hammered home by trainers and instructors the world over for a reason – it places you in the best place to be most effective with your aids

    From here, begin doing your homework regarding how best to use your body to communicate different questions to your horse.  Spend time learning about what aids are required the half halt for example.  Then start working on in-graining that sequence of correct aids into your riding, so as you don’t have to consciously think about them every time.  Put the basics on autopilot.

    Let Your Horse Know the Conversation Has Changed

    The final piece to the responsiveness puzzle is retraining your horse to understand and respond to your newfound clarity in the saddle.  This may take a while and can only be attempted once you have streamlined your aids / chatter / conversation first.

    Remember, by moving and ‘talking’ all the time, you have trained your horse to ignore you.  Now, you need to retrain him to the mindset that anything you ‘say’ from here on out will be of value and will only add to your conversation

    I suggest having a crop or riding whip for this.  Ideally we want your horse to respond to your seat, but those aids need to be refined first, before he can differentiate between a ‘speed wobble’ and an actual ‘aid’ coming from your body in the saddle.  Start with the simple lesson of ’cause and effect’ – you put your leg on, he responds to it.

    Cause and Effect

    The reason I say to carry the whip is because initially you may have to back your leg up with your stick.  Leg –  no response – leg and stick – response – reward.   The next time you can try again; Leg – response – reward.  It may take a few tries for your horse to realise that your leg is now a quality part of the conversation that must be listened to.  In my experience usually 2 to 3 repetitions is enough to get the point across.

    It is also important to remember that your stick / whip / crop is only there to back up your leg.  Not to be used alone at any point in the ride

    It should be used directly behind your calf muscle / lower leg / heel area, not on the shoulder or hind quarters.  To use it anywhere else in this situation is, in my opinion, confusing and cruel towards your horse.  It should also not be used with undue force.  A simple tap – a reminder of sorts – is enough to draw attention to your leg and get the desired result.

    Make sure that when you ask your horse to move forward, you are then ‘positioned’ correctly to ALLOW him to move forward.  Otherwise, again, it becomes confusing for your horse. 

    Re-schooling your horse to become more responsive is a challenge, however once you have your position and aids streamlined, progress can be achieved quite quickly.  Keep in mind that responsiveness is trained – unresponsiveness is also trained.  Make sure that what you are saying to your horse is worth listening to and from there, set the basics on autopilot.

    Happy Riding

    Lorna

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